Oh just a few things since this discussion has made me kind of livid:
If you go to a club (not gothic and such), and expect not to be touched by guys. Then complain about why guys touched you. You are just looking for reasons to call guys stupid.
If you want to dance with a few of your friends, put on some music and dance.
If you want to enjoy the night life, go walk downtown, or visit a bar, go to a concert.
Clubs have a single intention, reaching you the sex of your choice.
If you like rejecting guys, and then complaining about them being handsy then go to clubs wanting to dance with your friends.
No. Just no. If I want to go out and enjoy the night life, I'll goddamn bloody do it HOWEVER I WANT. If I go to a club, I do so to dance, and drink, and listen to the music I want to hear. Not so some idiot can decree that three fucking seconds
is long enough notice before sexual assault. Don't take this the wrong way, but fuck you.
3.14159265... wrote:But belial, I don't and my friends don't randomly go and grope/grab/rub.
We dance over, give 3 seconds to decide whether they want to dance, then put hands on hips give 3 seconds for that to settle, then rub away.
Thats not sexual assault, thats just procedure.
I can't hear myself talk in a club, so I shouldn't be expected to sweet talk a girl, just sweet dance her.
Actually, it is sexual assault if you're humping my ass and I did NOT ask you to. Just because you say it's not sexual assault doesn't mean it isn't.
gmalivuk wrote:In other words, keep your cocks (and hands) to yourself, asshole. Even if a girl goes to a club knowing there's some probability of gropage, it doesn't give you an excuse to be the prick doing it.
3.14159265... wrote:I am complaining about the fact that some girls will treat us like rapists, when we are there to dance with them.
Here the clubs I go to, never have live music, they lights are always dim (guess why).
The amount of time I give is I find sufficient, yet there are some girls who don't see that.
My method is also considered as groping, which is annoying.
There are only some girls (1 or 2 a night) who do get offended.
Asking is out of the question, music is wayyyyyy to loud, and saying "wanna dance?" always gets a no, from all the other girls other than the (1 or 2) mentioned.
Consider me offended. If you did that shit to me, I would treat you like a jackass. I'd probably assault you with a lit cigarette, depending on how hard you were 'dancing'.
Maybe if every girl you ask to dance says no, it's time to find a new way of picking up chicks.