Czhorat wrote:I think a case can be made that a good lover focuses on giving his or her partner sexual pleasure and fulfillment. Bear in mind that most women don't climax from intercourse; they are much more likely to through clitoral stimulation. Cunnilingus is one way to provide said stimulation.
Not the only, or the best, or the most interesting.
Newsflash, boys: not all women like oral sex, even as recipients.
Czhorat wrote:I think a partner not willing to try something that the other would like isn't being a good lover. If one one hand you have, "I really want this and it will make me feel good" and on the other "no, that seems icky", then that's a problem.
Hmm. I suppose it depends whether "this" is slightly outside the couple's normal repertoire or way outside.
"Hey, this cowgirl thing is nice ... but do you fancy trying reverse?"
"Hey, this missionary position thing is nice ... but how about sh*tting in my mouth?"
Dudes, I'm a woman.