Pebbles wrote:Its horrible because some people just go there to dance and not have some guy rub himself all over her like a damn cat. Ive been one of the two girls dancing before seriously some guys just dont take a hint. I had to tell one of the guys to bugger off cos he didnt understand that me moving away from him meant I didnt want to be near him. Personally I dont like clubs for exactly that reason, but I go because my friends love it and if I wanna hang out with my friends I have to go. Although I have to say every house party Ive ever been to has been a million times better than town.
I think the average guy (not guys here, but painfully average guys) doesn't hang out with his friends necessarily because he likes them, but because he needs something to do in between fucks. Guys don't go to clubs to hang out with friends, they go there to meet women. Women rarely go to clubs with the express purpose of getting laid (and if they do, they rarely bring their friends along on the chance they'll be catty). Guys don't understand this. They assume women go to clubs in packs like men go to clubs in packs--to offer moral support until one of them gets laid. The average fucktarded boozehound is COMPLETELY flabbergasted to see that a woman might actually be disinterested in him, especially after he's had a few beers because he's definitely thinking he's the alpha male by that point, and is liable to take anything you do and say as 'coy.'
Essentially, dumb guys operate solely on female stereotypes to dictate their behavior. No means yes, playing hard to get, etc. etc. They don't see women as real people, but as little puzzles to figure out, so make it obvious next time. "YOU ARE AN UNATTRACTIVE SLOB AND I WANT YOU AND YOUR TINY PENIS AND BIG EGO AWAY FROM ME BEFORE I CALL SECURITY. I JUST WANT TO DANCE WITH MY FRIENDS. GTFO!"
You can't just move away or say "No thank you." Either don't go to clubs or prepared to be really, really rude. I don't go to any social setting with alcohol unless it's a dinner place. I hate having to be rude just to maintain personal space.
grendelkhan wrote:Actual conversation.
She: I want an IED.
I: No you don't.
She: No, really, I do.
I: I assure you, you don't.
She: I read about them and everything.
I: You want an IUD. An IED is a roadside bomb.
She: What'd I say?
Let her have one! Girl sounds like someone I don't want to have puppies. XD